Resolved Question: Am I losing my mind or is this house upside down?
Posted on 25. Dec, 2009 by Yahoo! Answers: Search for in Hot, Inane, Internet, Web, fcukin
I would appreciate some candide feedback. Am I losing my mind or this this household upside down. Mom works and saves to buy my only child gifts for XMas (she is 12). My husband contributed $50 directly to my daughter for XMas - same story as usually...he has too many bills (of his own - not shared) to be able to contribute to the holiday season..same story last year and the prior. Okay, my daughter understands that things are not right and that money is very stressful for me right now. I still manage to purchase some really nice things for her - she does not know what but she knows I bought her gifts. I come home yesterday from work, after stopping off at blockbuster to get games and videos (just in case we get bored) to a ware zone. My daughter is yelling at me about every little thing while her dad is in the background stating "how freaking wonderful our home is..." Meantime, I am the only one trying to cook dinner for us and some quests that are coming over and my husband is sitting on the couch drinking beer and my daughter is locked in her room angry with me b/c I could not update her laptop and cut her hair. I feel like I created this monster and I cannot get it to go away. I love my child more then anything in the world and work very hard to give her a good life (even if her dad won't). I am devastated about the way she is treating me and am a loss of what to do. Even her own friends get angry with her. As of right now, all the hard work I have done to make this a nice Xmas....neither one is talking to me b.c, I was upset With them both last night (no yelling,,,no fighting,,,I simply told them that I don't appreciate the way they are treating me). Meantime, I have to cook again today for more folks - while she will sit in her room and my husband will sit on the couch and drink. Please....I need some good advise bc right now i feel like packing my bags and moving.